Saturday 20 April 2013

A letter ❤

Dear you ❤, 

Too many times, we get so caught up in life, that we forget to love the most important person who will always be with us, no matter what. 


Here I am compiling many ways of loving yourself and taking care of yourself through hard times and good ones. Some are taken from the Internet, some are mine, some I have learnt through watching other people, and some, are pure personal ways :)

 Let go of all the hate
A negative emotion harms you, and only you. And the negative emotions are - jealousy, hatred, guilt, anger and disappointment. Let them go. No matter how hard it is, let them all go. Forgive and forget. You don't have to carry all the baggage with you. Personally, meditation helps me handle this aspect :)

❤ Don't be judgmental
Everybody out there is living through his/her own battle. Nobody has a right to point a finger and judge. Constructive criticism is okay, but hurtful criticism, never. The less you judge the people around you, the less you'll judge yourself. And that, my friend, is a wonderful way of loving yourself.

❤  Believe
Find your belief system - Him or Higher Self or Your Power. Find something to believe in and you'll get through it all.

❤ Breathe ❤ Let go ❤ Smile❤ Remember that trouble doesn't last  Drink green tea ❤ Relax ❤ Trust  Be your own best friend ❤ Don't take yourself too seriously ❤ Go with your gut feeling ❤ Laugh ❤ Share ❤ Really listen to people ❤ Meditate ❤ Know that you deserve everything you hope for ❤ Have faith ❤ Be strong ❤ Charm people ❤ Be the type of person you want to meet ❤ Talk to yourself like you would talk to with someone you love ❤ Forgive ❤ Feel good ❤ Listen to your inner self - the little voice that chatters all day Trust that you are loved ❤ Follow your heart, take your brain with you. Or don't. Just follow your heart ❤ Learn from your mistakes ❤ Believe in love ❤ Know that if people are meant to be, they'll find a way back together ❤ Use emoticons :)  Only you know what your life is, so take suggestions from people, but let the decision be yours ❤ Listen to your heart ❤ Hug ❤ Cuddle ❤ Have a fantasy land of yours, and every time reality scares you, go in there for some solace and inspiration ❤ Believe that you can have everything you have always wanted ❤ Give a lot of chances to people, they need it  ❤ CTM ❤  Scrub ❤ Excel ❤ Be happy ❤ Its up to you to find the beauty in the ugliest days ❤ Respect yourself ❤ Thou shall not take shit ❤ Don't think too much  ❤ Just be ❤ Create your own opportunities ❤ Magic is something you make ❤ Stop being afraid of what could go wrong, think of what could go right ❤ Believe in the beauty of your dreams ❤ Sing, even if you sound like a walrus being stamped on its throat ❤ Think happy thoughts  ❤ Be kind to yourself too ❤ Be so happy, that when others look at you, they become happy ❤ Breathe it all in, love it all out  ❤ Worrying won't change the outcome ❤ Take the plunge ❤ Don't give up on anyone, anytime. You might as well be their life ❤ Remember that its always darkest before the dawn ❤ Eat chocolate ❤ Workout like a mad woman ❤ Sleep in ❤ Listen to music, there is always the kind of lyrics you want and need ❤ If you think you are going through your worst phase, know that if and when you get through it, nothing can break you again ❤ Love ❤ Let people know how much they mean to you ❤ Kiss❤ Always wear your invisible crown ❤ Life isn't about finding or losing yourself, life is about creating yourself ❤ Go out there and do amazing things ❤ Be the silver lining of someone's cloud ❤ Shine on ❤ Everything is gonna be okay in the end. If it's not okay, then its still not the end ❤ Happiness is not absence of problems, its the ability to deal with them ❤ Be random ❤ Don't be defined by your likes and dislikes and opinions ❤ Look at the bright side ❤ Count your blessings ❤ Be your own kind of beautiful Everything is gonna be okay in the end. So for now, laugh at the confusion and smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason   Finally, fall in love with yourself. After all, you are worth it all ❤ 

Print this out and hang it in your bedroom. Read it every day and soon enough you'll know how to love yourself :) 



  1. Awwww super post :-) .... Hope you are doing pretty good !

  2. dear Namitha,

    stumbled upon your page today and i must say that i was glad i did. love the fashion of your creations. hoping to become a regular of your page. :)


  3. Dear Namitha,

    stumbled upon your blog today, and i must say it is on hell of a pleasant surprise.
    kudos to your writing.

    hoping to become a regular at your page.


    1. Hey! :) Pleasant surprise? haha thank you :)

      Aaww I hope so too, thank you tons :)

      Made my day :)


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