Wednesday 24 October 2012

A burst of sunshine

There are days where I feel like sunshine, radiating happiness and charming the hell out of people. And there are days, where I feel like a pup's poop. Really. No exaggeration here. I complain about everything and everyone,get cranky and become a grump bag. I equate my life to an ultimate loser's life. I wonder how big a loser I am. My deepest insecurities surface out and torture me. I look at inspiring people around, and instead of feeling inspired, I feel lost. "What have I done in my life? What have I achieved till date?" Add in a bloat and very beautiful pimples, my day is successfully screwed. And guess what? No matter how much anybody tries to comfort me, I will not snap out of the bitch mode. I'll snap at them instead. #NotProudOfIt

But hey! Who wants to be around such a douche, right? ;) That is why, I have many positive quotes written in my calligraphic *ahem* handwriting stuck on million walls *wait, I have just three walls :o the fourth one is 25% door and 75% cupboard :o* my room.

And while I pondered over what to blog about today, I found the perfect one at a perfect time :)

I sincerely read the Gala Darling. No matter how criticized she is, she will always be my first official self love guru. I'll always go back to her everytime I feel fucked up, and she will always be my quirky inspiration.

The following lines are hers, they are on my wall from months, making my days and nights :)

I so hope they make yours too :)

Do your lips up sticky, sparkly & sweet. Then blow kisses. <3 Say thank you. <3 Allow other people to inspire you. <3 Share your bliss. <3 Smile — even if you are shy, even if you have bad teeth, even if it scares you. <3 Hold someone’s hand. <3 Be honest. <3 Volunteer your time. <3Love yourself. <3 Do your best. <3 Learn how to balance having respect for other people’s decisions & being true to yourself. <3 Tell people how much you like them. <3 Send unexpected gifts. <3 Talk to strangers. <3 Do favours. <3 Let go. <3 Be generous. <3 Eat whatever you want without guilt. <3 Don’t think about other people’s definitions of success, beauty or happiness. <3Make your own rules. <3 Write your own guidebook. <3 Count your blessings. <3 Never stop trying to improve. <3 Be your own superhero. <3 Aim higher. <3 Contribute. <3 Create spaces for other people to enjoy. <3 Sleep in. <3 Let other people sleep in, too. <3 Be compassionate. <3Listen. <3 Give yourself time off. <3 Be enthusiastic. <3 Choose happiness. <3 Create. <3 Follow your passion. <3 Connect. <3 Compliment people. <3 Spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself. <3 Surprise yourself. <3 Appreciate the people who support you. <3 Take photos; document everything. <3 Have a plan. <3 Know your patterns. <3 Be in the present. <3Laugh. <3 Get close. <3 Move through your fear. <3 Challenge yourself. <3 Keep it simple. <3 Turn up the music. <3 Realise your own freedom. <3 Relax. <3 Flirt. <3 Dress up in some small way every day. Even if it’s just a good pair of knickers or a coat of death-defying mascara. <3 Be different. <3 Be genuine. <3 Allow yourself to change & evolve. <3 Dream big. <3 Believe that you can manifest anything. <3 Take responsibility. <3 Treat everyone the same way — from your lover to your mother to your postman. <3 Appreciate your past for having made you the person you are. <3 Talk about how you feel. <3 Dance. <3 Sing. <3 Let go of guilt. <3 Treat your lovers with respect. <3 Admit your flaws. <3 ...& come up with a plan to remedy them. <3 Surprise people. <3 Set yourself a really huge goal. <3 Then achieve it & set another one. <3 Kiss. <3 A lot. <3 Remember that trouble doesn’t last. <3 Be still. <3 Look at the stars. <3 Be as ridiculous as you like. <3 Trust that you are loved. <3 Stay curious. <3 Charm people. <3 Give real hugs. <3 Bat your eyelashes. <3 Forget yourself. <3 Reach out. <3 Flatter people. <3 Get drunk on life. <3Release your expectations of other people. Allow them to be who they are, & appreciate them regardless. <3 Stretch. <3 Listen to your instincts. <3 Make eye contact. <3 Keep your word. <3Talk about real things. <3 Discover yourself. <3 Speak up. <3 Let life excite you & lead you astray. <3 Delight in every day. <3 Don’t be afraid. <3 Just love.

That made you day, know? :)

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  1. this made my day really..i will follow this coz i am exactly what you have described ... i am feeling ok and cool after reding this..i will paste it in my wardrobe too..thnx for posting <3 ^_^

  2. Nami..(can i call u nami?)
    Thanks a bunch..luv luv these..going thru a rough patch in life..and this is sooo beautiful..
    Thank u..:)(hugs)

    1. Aaww yes Shruti, that is sweetest comment I have probably got, evah! <3
      Thank you doll :)
      I am so glad it made you feel so good :) You might want to check the Capturing The Heart section, its for the rougher days :)
      *hugs back*


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